Wednesday, May 20, 2009

Very Bad Taste...

Came to visit my blog again this morning? At the wrong timing yea... coz' I re-published that post. You came to read a few times to make yourself angry and wallow in self-pity? Come... let me tell you something... what's with the title "Very Bad Taste".

Firstly, he has nothing to do with all these posts. You asked for this yourself when you tear the person I really care right in front of my FOUR eyes. He has attitude problem, so what? Everyone has... don't you have one big problem with you? Are you a coward not to tell him straight in his face that he has attitude problem? Do you leave a person wondering what wrong he has done to you, if he really has, that he should know of? What is it with you? Put yourself in his shoes. What if he's the one doing this to you. Keeping quiet for weeks after weeks and expecting you to call him. Does he owe you anything? He has a life of his own.. it doesn't have to revolve around you 24/7. I can talk to you nicely if you've put your words beautifully but no, you have to talk your style and you tried to paint an ugly picture of him to me so that I will end up quarreling with him. This is the second time you're doing it. What's your ulterior motive?

Secondly, I have nothing against you. You feel offended... you should know what offensive writing is when you really see one. It's just very mild what I wrote for you. You want a fren who will agree and nod with you all the time... and that's what you call a best buddy? Count your blessings. No matter how insensitive he is, he has done so much for you all these years. Just because of one incident, which he has no inclination of what's happening, you point all your 10 fingers at him. He's wrong. You're right. Try looking at a different perspective. No, I'm not talking on behalf of him. He has a voice of his own. I have my own voice. I don't live under anyone's opinion neither do I follow anyone's index finger. If you've said clearly that he's wrong, I'll shoot him down before he can build a wall of defense.

Thirdly, I'm not bothered whether you're angry or upset. You shouldn't have done what you did when you know how much importance I place him in my life. Whether he feels the same or not, I'm not bothered either. If he has done great wrong to you, as I've told you, I'll hammer it in his head. You don't have to brush everything under the carpet, let it be as you said... but what an irony, let it be but you kicked him away like rubbish after he stood by you for 15 solid years. What happen in February 2009 when he accompanied you when you were down in the dumps? I'm sure if you take a piece of paper and write down everything that he has done for you, the good deeds would probably surpass the mistakes. He's not perfect. I'm not perfect. You're not perfect. Nobody is. Do you only see his mistakes? Nothing but his mistakes? Count your blessings. Talk to him. Iron things out. Voice out whatever you have in mind. He cannot be reading your mind. If that's the case, what makes you think you are a great fren to another soul? You put such high expectation on him... for what? Can't you compromise a bit? Yeah... you're going to say all these while you're the one putting so much effort in the friendship. You can't expect him to do what you want him to do. Why make a big fuss over all these petty stuff? Are you being calculative with him?

Last but not least:
By keeping quiet won't help.
By getting angry won't help.
By blaming other people for putting you in this kinda situation won't help.
By spilling out to another person won't help.
By tearing a person whom you called a best buddy won't help.
By cursing me quietly DEFINITELY won't help.
By saying that I'm being a busybody won't help.


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